I want a relationship to last?

since the beginning of the year I have been with 10 different guys. i have had fun with all of them, we go out drinking and partying, stay out late, have sex, make out, etc, but we never seem to connect so after a few weeks of dating we break up and i feel empty and alone again and it sucks. i have been talking to this boy lately and i'm sure we'll date but i don't think there will be a spark there either. io'm 13 and i'm really impatient to meet my soul mate. do you have any advice how i can find the one? because i am tiured of being backstabbed and cheated on by all these guys